Tuesdays are a unique day for me these days... I drop Cade off at school and take Reese to my in laws for the day. In a few weeks, my Tuesdays will be my Bible study days, but for now, I stay home. Therefore, it has become my clean-cook-prep day of the week. I am so thankful for these hours and they have proven beneficial for my family. However, I had some thoughts as I was changing the sheets in all three of our beds in our home... "again... I feel like I just did this. I am always doing the same things..."
At first, I let myself wallow a little. "Yes, you do! You deserve a break! Go relax!" ... but then, I started talking to myself and reasoning a little bit. "Yes, I just did this. Yes, I will have to do this many, many more times... but, this is part of the job description right?"
Think about it... someone who goes to school to be an accountant knows that they are preparing for a life of accounting. They know the accounting will be a constant part of their life and they are okay with that. They know that some seasons will be busier than others (end of the year, tax season, etc...). They know that every week they will be required to do projects, make up proposals, run reports. When these tasks come up every week, it is just what ya do, and you do them. Sure its not all rainbows and sunshine, but when it's your job, you just do it...
How often do I harbor resentment towards my calling as a woman? Its like... UGH again! I just washed that... I just scrubbed that... I just fixed that... and I am needed to do something more and my first temptation is to complain. However, if I view my life as a worker at home (which is what God calls ALL women to be... whether you are single, married, young, old, no outside job, or with an outside job...)... This is part of my job description and God is my Employer. He lays out the tasks for me. He gives me the husband and the kids to manage. He is the One who bestows gifts as stewardships and I will have to give an account at the end of my life as to whether or not I was faithful.
Sure, the tasks are repetitive and gross at times, but if I see my life as an act of worship to God, the menial task are not only expected to be completed, but can be completed with joy. As a worker at home, I shouldn't be surprised when I have to:
-sweep the kitchen floor... again! I'm thankful I have the kids that eat their food and make messes
-wash the bedsheets and make the bed... again! I'm thankful that we have beds and that my kids sleep at night.
-clean the bathroom... again! I'm thankful we have a bathroom and that we have the money to pay the sewer bill!
-cook dinner... again! I have the privilege of nourishing my family. God has given me a lot of options as to what we should eat and I get to choose them and take time to lovingly cook something for them. I'm thankful for the money to purchase the food and that there are so many places to easily find food.
-pick up the mess in the living room... again! I'm thankful we have toys that they play with. I'm thankful for their budding imagination. I know that when I pick up, it is a blessing to Ian who prefers a nice and tidy home.
-weed the garden... again! I'm thankful for the lovely flowers I don't deserve. Thankful that if I am faithful to take care of the garden, a bountiful harvest will follow (hopefully :).
-iron... again! Ah ironing... but I'm thankful for the job my husband has been given. Thankful that I can serve him by freeing him up to do other things than iron his own clothes. Considering his needs more important than my own...
-weed the garden... again! I'm thankful for the lovely flowers I don't deserve. Thankful that if I am faithful to take care of the garden, a bountiful harvest will follow (hopefully :).
-iron... again! Ah ironing... but I'm thankful for the job my husband has been given. Thankful that I can serve him by freeing him up to do other things than iron his own clothes. Considering his needs more important than my own...
Yes, these tasks will be a weekly, sometimes daily, sometimes hourly thing... but you know, it's part of the job description, so I can either whine and complain about it... or work heartily as unto the Lord and reap the benefits of faithfulness. I mean, someone has to clean the house. Someone has to cook. Someone has to bring food home from the store. Someone has to wash the clothes... And... in my case, God has allowed me to stay home. Not to do whatever I want, whenever I want, but to serve... just like my Lord.
Seriously, you know the feeling of how nice it is to crash in bed at night knowing you have freshly washed sheets on your bed and the kitchen is clean... common grace.
It's all a matter of perspective and when we see our daily tasks as given to us by a loving and kind God, it helps us see that these things can be a means of blessing to our family and a great method of daily worship to God.
Blessings,
j



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